Arrrruuuuugh!!!
Okay. That felt better. Sorta. Maybe. Not.
It's all about family. If it isn't my immediate family, it's Mr Mushy's and somehow, I'm in on this. Don't ask me how, I'm still trying to figure it out.
Ever since I got back from Vegas, I have not had one whole day to myself. I've either been on the phone or traveling to Sacramento or dealing with business. I managed a wee bit of time earlier in the week but dayam. This is not a complaint, merely commentary.
I have a brother-in-law, two years younger than myself, he's the second from the youngest in his family and has some serious issues, none of which I care to get into at the moment. To try and save some cramping of my fingers, he has ended up at my mother-in-law's and sister-in-law's house and has been mooching off them for three months now. To my m-i-l, he has been trying, to everyone else, well, he's not fooling anyone. After my talk with my m-i-l on Wednesday, he isn't fooling her either, not really, not deep down. However, my b-i-l he's a con artisit amongst other things. He knows how to play people and he'll use any means to get what he needs to make his life easier, to include guilt. My m-i-l felt the daughter living with her was being mean to her brother. Well, there is no love lost between them. B-i-l, behind his mom's back, talks about his sister with total disrespect. Hm. Everything is everyone's else fault and he never takes responsibilities for his actions. He gets into finanacial problems and he's dialing the families phone numbers. Before Mr Mushy met me, he loaned the brother some money, since me, it hasn't happened. I'm such a mean wench, aren't I? *snort*
Well, crap is going to hit the fan next week and more than likely on Mr Mushy's and my wedding anniversary. We have to be down in Sacramento again, Sleep Disorder Clinic, not me, Mr Mushy. Ah well, we'll celebrate later. It's also might turn into the day when the ca-ca will hit the fan. it remains to be seen, but I'm not holding my breath. Stay tuned, you might get to watch my sanity take a flying leap.
FB. Gods. Two things have emerged. One is his daughter by his ex. Our ADA finally got around to to looking at FB's case. At the moment there is nothing she can do to help get custody. However, she can help FB in keeping his ex to the judgement. The ex wife doesn't know everything, but ADA has been in touch with his ex's soon to be ex husband and more than likely the sheriff. She also has been in touch with the FB's ex. Suddenly, the ex has called FB with a pack of lies you could choke on. FB's ex now has a new boyfriend who has taken it upon himself to let FB know that FB can call his daughter but his daughter will not be coming out to Calif this summer. Wrong. Court order says otherwise and our ADA is going to make sure it's followed. I do believe FB's ex is the ADA's new pet project, like she needed another one, I'm sure. The boyfriend has also informed FB that FB's daughter has a lot of questions for FB, such as, why hasn't daddy called or written me all this time. So, part of this answer lies in Fb's ex's lap. She has told everyone FB is dead. The other half of this is in FB's lap. My daughter has been graciously and subtly trying to tell FB that he needs to call his daughter more or it's going to come back to bite him in the ass. She never nagged him about it because he would get pissy with her, hence, being subtle on her part. Hell, personally, when dealing with a stubborn mule who digs its heels in, my method would be less subtle. I'd would take a 2 x 4 to the back of its head. I'm not sure it would get better results, but it sure as hell would make me feel better, not much you can do constructively with a stubborn mule......then I'd bury it in the garden with my shovel. *snicker*
FB's latest stupidity is that my daughter recently found some nekky pics of a female friend of FB's which FB chose to keep on his laptop that he and daughter share. Yeah, well, I never claimed FB was the brightest bulb in the pack. Daughter is livid. Of course the female in question was trying to become a close friend to my daughter, well that isn't going to happen. Daughter is biding her time, when the wench calls the house, Daughter will be giving the wench a piece of her (Daughter's) mind..... not that Daughter can afford to give up a piece, yes, I do love her, terribly much so, but I have never been in denial where any of my children are concerned, bless their little pea picking hearts.
I spent most of Saturday morning online trying to secure tickets for Troll, Sprout and Daughter to the WWE event(professional wrestling) coming to our civic auditorium. Now that was an interesting morning, not. Needless to say, I didn't get great seats, but they'll do.
Oh yes, and before I forget.... Mr Mushy had an excellent report from oncology. All his tests look good. He has to go back in 6 months and if that one looks just as good, we get to stretch the appointments to once a year and after the next two years, with good reports, we can consider him having beat it. It pays for everyone over 50 to get a colonoscopy done. I dread to think what would have happened if he hadn't. If he had got it done at 50 instead of 56, it wouldn't have developed as much as it had and if he had waited any longer, it would have broke through his colon and affected a number of vital organs and he wouldn't be here today. So, get it done. It can save your life. Colon cancer is a silent killer but caught in time, it is cureable.
That's my soapbox for the day.