Sunday, April 30, 2006

Ahhhhh, Sunday

Since I didn't get to sleep in on Saturday (pookie and topper got me up at 6:30 am)I did enjoy a bit of a lay in today. Not much of one, since my eyes popped open at 7:30 and I couldn't go back to sleep. I love Sundays, they are my days to do what I want, when I want, no hurries, no hassles. I fixed vegetarian omlettes with a Southwestern flair for Mr. M and myself, did my exercising for the day then donned my hat, my boots, sunglasses and outside I went to do a few hours of yard work. Since the weedwhacker has apparently given up the ghost and I didn't feel like running down to purchase another one, I merely opted to use my grass shears to do the trimming I needed around the side garden and the front yard. Dinner is in the oven finishing up and I'm kicking back with a glass of cold diet orange soda. Life is good. I think I even got a little sunburn. It was kinda nice to sit outside today with Mr M and just chit-chat about things as we worked on tomato cages. I miss that, the chit-chat, that is.

Tomorrow there's a funeral and I get to do the bills.. yea,NOT. I did some work on a new site. Now I am just waiting to get the password again because I want to check some old stuff out that isn't visible. After that, I'll finish up and set it up on my site for viewing. I still need to get stuff moved over of mine, but I am just being a bit lazy. I am also going to be moving the business site. I just can't see paying money for a site when I have a sub domain at my disposal and it came with the new service. I'm pretty sure all my personal web stuff and the business can go on that domain. My stories will have moved however. I'll update stuff when I move it around. I haven't made any new desktop wallpaper for my site lately either, darn it. I don't need more daylight hours, I just to hibernate for a week!

Sprout is not happy with his father. My ex called today and told me to tell Sprout to meet them (family members) down at a park for a 'celebration of life' get together. One of the ex's cousins died last Saturday from cancer, she was 47. Sprout doesn't know this lady or much of the family members who will be there, but that wasn't his biggest issue with the ex. The ex called on Friday and told the kids (Daughter and Sprout) that he'd be in town on Saturday. He wanted to see them. He never showed up and he never called. Come to find out today, as the ex explained it, things just changed and he was sorry. We all knew what that meant, he got to his hometown and got drunk with his brother and visited all his other family members, but his kids. In the meantime, Daughter and Sprout stayed home and by the phone waiting for him to call. Daughter hasn't seen her father in over a year. Sprout's issue, he could have called and and told Sprout that his plans weren't quite working out as he planned. It seems like when the ex calls, he wants them all to drop what they are doing and go meet him, on his time frame. Yeah. Sprout didn't go. Daughter and family did. Sprout is a grown young man, 22 and he makes up his own decisions. This is one of those things where I keep my thoughts to myself unless asked for. I spent most of their growing up years after the divorce finding excuses for the ex and his lack of. At some point, I just quit doing it. Besides, after awhile, they knew.

Life, you take the good with the bad and the things that suck and make the most of it. You only need to hold on to the things that make it worthwhile.

Friday, April 28, 2006

Friday Night At Shroom's House

It's hot enough to saute some shrooms and butter on the sidewalk. Okay, maybe not that hot yet, but it's hot enough to make the devil sigh.

Mr M did two funerals today and his whole face is sunburnt. I'll have to be digging out the sunscreen. Speaking of Mr M, I was a bit worried about getting his airline ticket until number one son called this afternoon. I took down the info and hopped over to the web site. The fares are great and lower than anything I have found on the net so far. My son and his lovely wife used them to fly to NY this past year and they loved it. My friend said, "Just get him here." They won't have as much time to spend on Sunday as I had hoped, so I think NASCAR is definitely out. That's okay, the main thing is visiting The Wall. He's definitely excited about all this and I'm happy for him even if it is the first major trip anywhere he has taken without me since we got together. I'll survive, even if I do pout a little. And more than anything, I am hoping this convention will do something for him, give him something positive to count on. Anyway, I can't lock in his ticket until Monday but it's the first thing I'm going to do.

Topper is in the livingroom using the big screen tv to play his video game.. looks like Star Wars. Pookie is in the dining area/kitchen with me. At the moment she is playing her own video game on the smaller tv, Hamtaro.

Sprout, who had to babysit the kids for me earlier when I went to go pick up Mr M, is now holed up in his room online playing WOW. He's put in some applications via the net but there's still more he needs to go get. He's also thinking about college, heavy machinery (those BIG things like cats and dozers), He's a natural with them.

Everyone is pretty much lying low until the sun sets and it starts to cool off around here. Personally, I don't think it's been too hot yet. My efforts at weed whacking were thwarted. My two-wheeled weed whacker is not working. My hand held weed whacker is not working. If I didn't know better, I'd say someone sabotaged the darn things. So, Mr M has two more things added to his Honey-Do list, isn't he lucky.

Troll is babysitting tomorrow morning as I am picking up Daugther and we're getting our nails done. Troll just thanks me so much for this blessed opportunity. *snicker*

The grandkids are well, starting to grow up. Topper is a dervish. That boy is into everything and anything. His mother had to scold him the other day because out of the blue, he pulled his private body part out of his shorts and was trying to fit it in a slot in the front of a moving fan. Lordy. Why, one might ask. He said he was trying to cool off. The lad then got a long talk about the necessity of keeping his body parts in his clothes and two, you don't stick anything in a moving fan.

I got a phone call the other day from Daughter as I was starting to do the grocery shopping. Pookie was watching some movie for teenagers where the message was about condoms and birth control pills. Daughter didn't know that Pookie was watching as Daughter was cleaning, that is until Pookie asked Mom what condoms and birth control pills were.

Daughter: Mom, I just had to tell your granddaughter about condoms and birth control pills.
Me: Oh? Why this sudden interest?
Daughter: She was watching something on tv.
Me: So, did you do it right or am I going to have to fix this too?(another story for another day)
Daughter: I told her that condoms were something that men wore to keep from making babies and birth control pills were something women took to keep from having babies and that was all the information she(pookie) was going to get at this time as I was not ready for this conversation and we can talk about it again when she's 12. In the meantime if any boy tries to put his private parts near her private parts tell him NO.

I have to giggle. Daughter and FB are not ready for all the curiosity but they both understand it is better to simply answer her questions. I was told it was not funny, which in turn, made me laugh harder. I have always been straightforward with my children about educating them about sex. I kept it simple and what clinical stuff I didn't get to, forgot or covered, got covered again in their sex ed class. Only Daughter told FB that he will have the talk with Topper when it's time. Unlike her younger brother (#1 son) who got the talk from me because my ex wouldn't do it. My ex simply said to let the boy learn the way he did, on the street. Yes, I married an ignorant SOB, in more ways than one. Trust me, I learned from my mistakes.

Well time to get dinner done. We start to eat later as it gets hotter around here.

Thursday, April 27, 2006

Thursday

I'm not all that sure where today went either. This week has just gotten away from me. I had Daughter and Topper for most of the day and that always means I don't get a lot done around here. At least I don't get the Pookie and Topper until after 3 pm tomorrow so hopefully, I'll get some stuff done before then.

I still need to transfer all my web site stuff over to the two sites, but I still have a bit of time to do that. I started work on a new design for an old site, but with with all the interruptions I have had today, that didn't get far either.

Went to buy gasoline today and I couldn't believe it. Yesterday, the price at a couple of stations was $3.07. Today, those same stations are sporting prices at $3.17, $3.15 and Chevron, is $3.25. I went in search of someplace that has gas for $3.07 and found one. I'm not sure how long that is going to last though.

Here it is around 8pm and the temp is still at 88 degrees. I think we just passed spring and went straight into summer. I am not complaining. I rather be hot than cold any day, but it doesn't bode well for our firefighters.

Business is still slow. With all the rain we've had, contractors have had to wait for things to dry out, but it won't be long now before everyone is in full swing. There's more bids this year than I have ever seen, that's a good thing.

The Grove is quiet so I think I'll go put my feet up, chit chat a bit and have a decent turn in. I still have to be up early. It's going to be a looong day for a Friday.

Wednesday, April 26, 2006

It's Hump Day, Already?

Just like I asked, "Where did the weekend go?" I'm wondering the same thing about my week. Wow.

I get the kiddos this weekend so today is designated shopping day. Grandma is low on vanilla ice cream and that just won't do. Maybe for the 4th of July this year, I'll do what a friend does and make some homemade stuff. I haven't done that in ages. I'm also shopping for some RAM for this kitchen computer. It only has 200 something ram in it.. no wonder my duckie is forever drowning. I checked yesterday and it has four chips in but they're all 64's that doesn't cut it with me, so off I go in hunt of the 512 chip.

A friend made a very generous offer last night and I do believe Mr M is going to take him up on it. I think it would do Mr M some spiritual good to attend this convention. He's seems to have lost, not his moral compass but his faith and for someone who has always been a spiritual person, this is not good. Besides, I'm sending him into good hands so the convention aside, I know he's going to have a good time. The other thing is that it's very important to Mr M to be able to visit "The Wall" in Wash. DC. He's never been there. We've only visited The Traveling Wall when it comes to town. That impresses me and I can only imagine what the actual life size thing would do. I even teased him about a Nascar race my friend spoke of and his eyes lit up. LOL. I don't know how they could manage it, but even if they don't get that far, just to be able to lay his hands on The Wall and to see it, that would make it all worthwhile. Personally, I think that this convention is something he needs too, he just doesn't know it yet. He feels so lost and even I can't bring him home again. He'll be gone over a weekend, with good food and good company. I feel pretty good about that. It's the least I can do for him, give him up for a weekend.

Daughter is still fighting this thing she caught. She still has a fever but it's low grade, and now she has a sinus headache and all that other happy crap. However, she sounds a lot better and is mending.

Got to take the lawn tractor down to the shed to dig out the electric fan because it's suppose to get to 85 today and it looks the rain is gone for the season now. Although I'll be complaining of the heat in a month or two. I think I rather be hot than cold.

I had some comments for world happenings but that will have to wait for another post.

Monday, April 24, 2006

Clouds Over The Grove

So, my morning started early, at about 1 am to be exact, how about you? FB called at one this morning to tell me that Daughter's fever was spiking again. She has a compromised immune system and I am learning that with such, one can never be too careful, you just don't know what will happen. I got dressed and drove over there to stay with the kids while he took her into the ER. He wasn't happy, but he was going to do it. They got back around 5 this morning. She's got a bad inflamation of her tonsils and he's treating her for strep. She started the antibiotics last night and already seems a bit better today.

Although FB had to go to school today, he skipped his first class and because he doesn't get home until around 8 pm tonight, I went over and brought everyone over here. Daughter needs looking after. I knew she wouldn't take care of herself as she should if I left her at home. Pookie's playing hookey today as is Topper. FB will pick them up.

I left the house around 10:30 this morning with the intention of stopping at the post office and a side trip to the bank before picking everyone up and coming back here. I got to the post office but when I got back into the truck, it wouldn't turn over. Arrrrrrugh! I called home got Sprout to bring Mr M down and they jumped the battery for me. When I got back here it was nearly time for lunch so I'm in the midst of feeding this whole crew and I haven't eaten yet today. it's a good thing I did manage a cup of coffee. Huzzah!

As I am writing this part, I can safely say, that everyone is now fed and I am sitting down to a hot bowl of oatmeal. I don't care what time it is, my day doesn't start right without it.. that might explain my day so far. *grin*

Sunday, April 23, 2006

Pass The Ben Gay, Please

One and a half acres, all mowed. It looks pretty all mowed down and looking fresh, too bad it won't stay that way until winter. Most of it is winter grass that will fade when summer settles in. One of these days we're hoping we can get real grass growing. While I was riding around on the lawnmower, I passed by my neighbor's goats, two babies and two older ones. They were on my property enjoying the wild buttercups. I also scared the cat from her cool spot out back, oops. I still can't believe that all that bouncing around could make me sore. I wouldn't let the guys take pictures either. I caught one of them trying to sneak a picture with their cell phone. I was enjoying myself and they just need to go find something to do and leave me alone. At least on that lawn tractor, riding around, I can sing at the top of my flat voice and no one can hear me. I sure do love that ipod shuffle the boys got me for my birthday.. had on my little ole straw hat and my sunglasses, yes siree, I had a good time. Tomorrow I get to do housework, oh goodie. Blech. Riding around, I got some ideas for planting flowers. I can hear the moans from the peanut gallery now. Tough.

Mr M is continuing to do well. He's spellbound by the high speed connection. His face is all red today (he's Irish and his skin tones are white. He'll burn on a summer whisper) as he was outside setting up the sprinkler system for the side of the house. That is going to be such a blessing in disguise.

Daughter caught one helluva a viral bug. She's been down with a 103 temp all weekend. Talked to FB today and it seems like she was finally on the mend. Her fever has dropped to 99. Pookie is in one of her leave-me-alone and I don't care how I look moods, Topper wants attention wherever he can get it. Poor FB, I really do feel sorry for him.

Sprout has emerged from his room now and then, looking like he needs a good shave. I've let him get away with being locked in his room with the high speed but that all is soon going to change. He's hitting the pavement for a job this week and taking one of his friends with him. Mom has spoken.

I found this cute little thing to put on your desktop to monitor your ram useage. Yeah, I'm amused by the simplest things. It's a little ducky that swims around and when you have too many programs open, he starts to swim upside down and the pond fills up. Needless to say, this computer needs more ram. Troll went out to buy himself some today. I am happy to report his ducky no longer swims upside down. *grin*

Want to check it out? You can find it here.

Okay, this shroom is fading fast. Tomorrow is a new day.

Friday, April 21, 2006

What? Friday, already?

Oh man, I can't believe it's Friday already. I know we've been rushed all week, but, wow.

I had to go get Topper this morning. He didn't have class and Daughter is down with something, running a temp, all achy, etc. So, I offered to take Topper for the day, will pick up Pookie after school and between Mrs. Sicko and Pookie they can hold down the fort until FB gets home shortly thereafter. He has a short day at school on Fridays.

I nearly fainted when I went to fill up the truck this morning. Yesterday the price of gas at Shell was $2.97/gal. This morning it is at $3.10/gal. OMG and it isn't even summer yet when it's predicted the prices will soar. It makes me wonder what they'll peak at before something is done about it.

I'm considering downloading a bot for the channel since I have a 24/7 connection now that no provider is going to screech about if I leave myself hooked in. I'm just hesitant because I don't know if I have the time to mess with it.

Well time to go spend some time with Topper before he has to go home.

Thursday, April 20, 2006

Yippppppppeeeee!

Can you see this???!!! No, of course you can't. *grin* Well, that high speed wireless called clear wire that I mentioned I couldn't get? I got it!!!!!!!! Mr. M is finishing up installing the ethernet adapters to the computers now. Sprout is online gaming already and I'm currently working from my laptop. I need to go out and buy a new cd rom for this kitchen comp because I need to install drivers and apparently my cd rom nor dvd player are working. We went down one of the local companies and they loaned us one to try out and see if we get the signal. Since our next door neighbor has it, we should and we do. We thought we'd need to order the outdoor modem but fortunatly we get a strong enough signal inside the house. The one bad thing is, my desk top in the office, the one my friend sold me, is too old to be able to work with the high speed, so sometime this season I'll have to purchase a new cpu then I will be rockin'.

In the meantime, all is quiet around here. Mr M and I went out to have our anniversary dinner last night at Red Lobster, that was nice. I'll been super busy all week, mostly errands in town. I've got email to catch up on, emails to return and things to do. So hopefully over the weekend I'll get caught up.

I am just so stoked about the high speed. Mr M is thrilled that he'll have it for his comp now. He's been working at 14.4 forever.

The weather has been great. Rain is predicted for tomorrow but nothing real heavy. I can live with that.

See ya on the flip side

Tuesday, April 18, 2006

The Magic Noodle Pot

With a title like that, you got to know there's a story behind it, yes? *grin*

Inspired by the Chinese food we had two weeks ago, I decided to concoct a noodle dish with an Asian flair. It's a pretty simple recipe. There's boneless skinless chicken pieces, frozen Asian veggies, onion, garlic, bacon pieces(yes, bacon), soy sauce and of course, noddles (in this case thin spaghetti). I haven't made spaghetti in years, that's Mr. M specialty. So you use the wok and precook the chicken pieces, defrost the veggies, prefry the onions and garlic (just until the onions are soft and translucent and the garlic isn't brown) and bacon pieces, cook up the noodles then throw them all together in to the wok and cover with soy sauce. Easy enough, right? Good too! My only problem? I had two small packages of the thin spaghetti and about a quarter of a package from a left over bunch. So, the pot's seasoned water is boiling away, I drop in the remainder of the package of spaghetti I had and then looked at the two smaller packs I had gotten just for this dinner and I thought, that's not a whole lot in the pot already and those don't look like much. I opened and dropped in one package, stirred it up... naw... not nearly enough.. so I dropped in the last package too. Welllllll.... let's just say that the wok was full and darn near to overflowing by the time I got everything in. Can we say, "Oops"? By the time dinner was over and Troll packed it all up for the frig, all you can see now when you open my frig is containers and containers of the noodle dish. I think I'm going to send some over to Daughter today. LOL. Oh well. I was tired after the trip to Sacramento and I wanted something quick, fast and good. We won't be having this dish any time soon again, that's for sure.

Here's comes the Sun:

SUN!!! And it looks like all week too! *does the Snoopy Dance* Yes! Yes! Yes! The grandkids and I did the grass mowing this past Saturday, but as I left with Mr M this morning to drop him off for a funeral, I commented on how it looked like I hadn't even mowed yet. The winter grasses have grown that fast. I need to stay on top of this because it can create a problem in the summer. I just hope we don't springboard right into summer temps. The winter grasses will dry out quicker and that spells for a disastrous fire season.

Personal Health:

My blood sugar is coming down. It's still too high for me (in the 120's)but it's out of the 130's. I'm working at it. My blood pressure has been stable however, must be the meds.

Mr M has been holding down his own fort. It's one day at a time. To do anything else would probably drive me up the wall. As it is, I am not happy with myself. Last Monday night I came as close to a mental breakdown as I want to come. It surely was the closest I've ever come to losing it. It scared me. I almost reached out and picked up the phone, but I have a hard time doing that. It's just that other people in my life have their own stuff to deal with. Why should I add to that? Besides.. what would I say? It's hard for me to open up about this stuff and the times that I do,it's a real effort on my part. My little 'fit' was nonproductive and I'm not a happy camper about it. I have always been able to maintain control in situations like this because if not me, who? To know that I damn near lost it..well, in any case that's what I've been dealing with for the past week.

My winter clothes are all too big for me now, but I refuse to go buy anything new. We're headed into the summer months and by the time winter rolls around again I'll need even smaller clothes so I am not buying anything until winter gets here. Why waste the money. Some of my shorts are funny on me. LOL. You could fit a person and a half into them. Too funny, but gratifying.

Happenings Outside The Grove:

--I am thoroughly appalled by what I heard on the news this morning. A religious denomination are protesting outside of funerals for military personnel. Their platform is that this is God's punishment for this society that advocates homosexuality. They feel that the Bible shows that they are justified in their ways. There's also talk of First Amendment Rights here. Okay. So, you're entitled to your civil rights, but what about the rights of the loved ones? How dare you be so disrespectful of the dead this way? How dare you be so morally cruel to use someone's dying to further your agenda and to be heard? You want to spout your constitutional rights? Go stand on your church steps and say what you want to say. Go stand on the steps of City Hall and protest all you want, but give people the privacy and the dignity they deserve! Quit stepping on the civil rights of others to further your spiritual quest. And where is their spiritual leader in all this? Surely there is some shred of humanity in this person to advise his flock that this is not the time nor the place. To all things there is a season and defiling the dignity of the dead is not one of them.

Apparently we have the same thing going on over here as well. We have at least two major funeral homes who own cemeteries and they have banned these protestors from their grounds. The Veterans' Honor Guard have been advised to ignore such displays and concentrate on their duty, to give the dead the honor they deserve.

--On Duke: We rest too much on DNA. It is useful in proving that someone may not guilty or may be guilty. It is not conclusive, meaning that someone can still be guilty of a crime even if they didn't leave DNA around. People are wising up to DNA forenics and are being much more careful in the commission of a crime.

These young men, by right, are innocent until proven guilty. The burden of proof falls on the state. Even by that token, when a woman says rape, we must believe her until otherwise is proven or everything women have gone through, down through time, will be for naught.

I am not all that enthused by the talk of these pictures of this young woman. They prove nothing as there is no time stamp on them. How are we to know that they weren't taken afterwards as some sort of trophy? The ugliness of that one email that surfaced leads me to ponder about attitudes there.

My greatest pondering is that in the end, what will be served? Prestige? Money? Women? Attitudes? Justice? Just how blind will Justice be in this case?

--Gasoline prices are tipping the $3.00 mark. I hear that the companies shareholders did real well. So well they'll not have to worry traveling or how they do it. Talk about using the backs of the everyday men to make a profit.

--Iran. Don't trust them, never have. For too long they've been quiet. Nothing surprises me. Other nations need to rally and force Iran to comply. If you want to play with the Big Dogs, get off the damn porch. If Germany and France make a show of force, I'll be listening to Hell freeze over.

--Four retired Generals: Come on people, let's get realistic here. If any of you have served in the Armed Forces or been part of the military family, you understand. It's all and good to feel one way but realistically, you need to feed your family, have a job, you're not about to risk that by opening your mouth and saying bad things about the Commander-In-Chief's staff. You're going to say, "Yes, Sir" and "No, Sir" and go about your business until one day your pension is no longer a threat issue. Anyone who says otherwise, is a dreamer. It would be nice to believe that people would say what they felt at the time, but when you have been on the job, with a few years put in, you're not going to rock that boat and lose everything you have worked for up to now. There are so very few martyrs for the cause of idealism.

--Iraq: They need to fight their own civil battles. If they can't or won't get their parlimentary asses in gear, we should leave. They count on us way too much. It gives them an excuse to dither around all in the name of politics. I'm all for us helping a nation achieve freedom, what I'm not for is allowing the good will of our nation,not tomention the lives of good men and women, be used as an excuse for wannbe heads of state to dick around instead of finding a way to govern themselves. Our freedom was bought with our blood, let them shed their own to achieve theirs... it will be so much more meaningful for them and hopefully they won't forget the men of their nation who died to secure them the right to govern themselves the next time they find themselves in some sort of political gridlock because apparently the loss of ours means so little to them.

Saturday, April 15, 2006

*snap* *crackle* *fizzle*

Okay so the best laid plans of a shroom go astray. When will I ever learn? I had hoped to get online tonight but I didn't count on the artistic talents of Pookie and Topper. The eggs are gorgeous. *nodnnodnod* They had a good time. Because it is storming again, we won't be out having an Easter Egg hunt tomorrow. Troll and Sprout are happy simply because they don't have to hide eggs.

Next week Mr M and I celebrate our 9th wedding anniversary on the 19th. Despite the turmoil, we look forward to a heck of a lot of years to come. Mr. M's present to me was an early one. I got a new cell phone!! Hey, it's what I wanted. I got a brand new pink Razor. hehehe. We also got one for Mr M(he got black)and one for Sprout(he got silver). I couldn't pass up the deal. I also got Mr M this really cool thing. It's an entertainment system that can play old fashioned records, cds, cassettes and has a radio. I think that aobut covers everything. He has a lot of records in storage but nothing to play them on. I'm looking forward to evenings when we have the house to ourselves and we can dance together to the music.

The $%#@!#$ wireless high speed didn't work out. Troll went down to Best Buy earlier this week and when the Geek Squad (yes, the company is called that) started to run down the info for Troll, he said he had a brain meltdown when they started speaking geek. lol. So, Troll took me in there today and I found out that Clear Wire doesn't have any towers near us...yet. So, it looks like we either go with Hughesnet (directv-direcway) OR with another company Mr M is going to go check out that suppliues high speed from microwaves? This is Mr M we're talking about here, he's less techie than I am. I'm thinking radio waves, but we'll see. The next door neighbor has it.

Mr M is nearly bain-bamaged from working on the taxes and I'm nearly ready to put his hide on the wall because of his organizational skills (can we say, non-existant)and I am having to hunt up everything. You'd think he'd use the containers I have set aside for the receipts and stuff. Thank the Lady for Turbo Tax and Quick Books.

Monday we're off to Sacramento so the dental crew can start the work on Mr M's bridge. I need to call the VA Clinic to make my appointment for May. I hope I can get my blood sugar back down by then. It's still up there, under 140, but it's still too high.

Time to put this shroom to bed. The guys are watching pay-per-view, UFC (ultimate fighting) and they have a friend over. They're all getting loud. I bought pizzas to keep them fed. I figure if they're eating they'll be quiet.

Thursday, April 13, 2006

*Whew*

Hard on the heels of a rough night, enter Pookie and Topper. Kiddos don't understand grown-up dynamics and I don't have the heart to disappoint them any more than I can help. So, the last two days have been dedicated to them and by the Lady's Grace, we got partly cloudy skies, warm temps and SUN today. So, the kiddos and I went out and planted strawberries. I was pleasantly surprised. They were really good gardeners today then these two wanted me to take them for rides. Mr M has a riding lawnmower with a cart. So they piled into the cart and I got to drive them around the acreage and I did a little mowing as we did so. They had fun. I dropped them back off at home early this evening. I dropped online after I got back and sorry I missed ya partner. I bet I'm as tired as you are. *grin* (Go Mom..hehehehe) Glad to hear ol' Stoney is going to be alright and is back at home. Nasty stuff. Daughter went through that a few ago.

We're headed back into rain through the weekend. As we took the kids home, we had to cross the Sacramento River in several different spots. The river is so swollen. People are going to end up with river water at their back doors or in their homes for Easter.

This Saturday Troll and I are going down to see about getting high speed installed in the house. If all goes well, we'll all be grinning around here and I won't have to depend on dial-up. That would be nice. In this old computer I have here in the office, bless its pea-pickin' heart, I need to get an ethernet card for the high speed to work. This working season, I am going to have to give in and get a new cpu. I'm not sure how much longer this old man is going to last, but he's done well by me. I just hate to put him out to pasture ( and I mean the computer not the man I live with *grin*).

Saturday is color Easter eggs night for the kiddos. I'll get 'em all hard boiled tomorrow sometime. Each of the kids get 18 eggs to color. They'd like more but as it is, we'll be eating devilled eggs and egg salad for days. The things we do to insure the grandkids have a good time.

Sprout is still looking for work. He hasn't been trying very hard but he knows he has until Monday to get the goofing around out of his system. I refuse to take rent money from him when he's out of work and that bugs the heck out of him, so he'll get a job soon. I do it deliberately you know. Besides, he has to chip in for the high speed IF he wants access to the gaming router for his online gaming sessions and Troll is not going to let him have access unless he can pay for it. That's deliberate on Troll's part. Actually, I need to speak with Troll... I think we should let Sprout have a taste of high speed, then if he doesn't get off his duff, we yank router access..

Got a picture of Dad today. He's looking good. He's lost 60 pounds and that' good for Dad. Before the heart attack he weighed about three hundred something. Dad always liked to eat, but even that was too much for his six foot frame. He's looking good and the doctors are happy with his progress. He's in rehab and just moving right along.

My brain melted down two days ago, but I'm okay. Being able to just ride around, mowing the lawn was great. The sun felt so good on my skin. It's very healing.

I'm still alive, brain regenerating, and creativity still on the outskirts but starting to nibble again.

Hugs and Kisses.

Quote For The Day

Life is not holding a good hand; Life is playing a poor hand well.
- Danish proverb

Tuesday, April 11, 2006

Tuesday

Rough night last night. Mind like a mushy melon. Tired. Too much left unsettled, untalked about. Don't care at the moment. Just need some breathing room and no thinking....none... back later.

Monday, April 10, 2006

Grove-ings On A Monday

FINALLY! We had one client who had not paid off his 2005 account. We got the check today, the only bad thing was, he forgot to sign the check! Mr M called him and teasingly gave him a rough time. We met at a local grocery store to have him sign it. The money couldn't come at a better time. I think my side of the waterbed can't hold up anymore. I had a couple of leaks, which I patched (and duct taped for security) but they've been leaking again, so it's time to get a new wave-less mattress for that side.

Pookie will be happy to know that I purchased 10 strawberry plants, 6 green pepper plants (Mr M insisted on these), one grape tomato plant, two different tomato plants and one herb, thyme. I was quite surprised how good a shape these were in for being on sale for ninety-nine cents each. We still can't get them into the ground yet because of the rain, but I do have bigger containers and the strawberry plants are going into an old wheel barrow. Hopefully, this will satisfy Pookie for the time being until the ground can dry up some and we can truly get a garden under way. Her list of items seems to grow every day. Now she has added citrus trees to her list. Oh! And sun flowers. She can't believe that sun flower seeds come in the sun flower head themselves. I love sunflowers so this will be fun to do with her.

I have been putting off ordering my tri-focal glasses. I need to get after that. They're suppose to help with the eye stress and stuff, which in turn should help ease some of the discomfort I get from eye strain. I'm not sure if the macular degeneration has a play in all this, but I'm not taking any chances. I'm rather fond of my eyesight.

Last night Sprout couldn't make up his mind what he wanted to do and finally I looked at Mr M and Troll and said, "let's go." They looked at each other, then at me and said, "Where are we going?" my reply, " Out to eat. I want Chinese." So we went to try out this new place Troll went to earlier in the week. The food was wonderful! Of course, we always order way too much food, but guess what we're having for dinner tonight? I find it amusing that whenever we go to a Chinese place, they always are amazed by how much food we order. " You must be really hungry." Is the stock statement we get. There's usually 6-8 dishes on the table that we all share. Normally we barely put a dent in the food, but we always take it home for the next day. Hey, that just means I don't have to cook. Still, I walked out of there feeling like I should be on dolly and wheeled to the car. As a side note, I'm the only one who ate dinner with chop sticks. *grin*

Still haven't had the time to sit down and work on Mending's next part yet. Looks like that may have to wait until the later part of the week unless I can work in something tonight while Mr M is at his meeting. I'm still trying to make some time to do some web design... not enough hours in the day.

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MUSINGS FOR OUTSIDE THE GROVE:

Scooter: I find it totally amazing how this man has managed to shift the attention away from what he has done wrong and how willingly the press has been to be led. Of course, there's more news and dollars in turning the eyes of America back on the President. It makes me wonder what's in Scooter's future. Will they remember to get back on task?

The Duke Case: Something really caught my eye with this one the other night. There were a bunch of people standing outside of the accuser's house. There was talk of racial bias, of the difference between how this case would have been handled if it were a white woman allegedly attacked. In this case, I say bunk. Whatever the accuser's race, unless there is enough evidence for the DA to believe he can get a conviction, there aren't going to be any charges filed. Unless there is enough evidence to prove a crime has been committed, no one is being charged, regardless of race.

Immigration: Here's a sticky wicket for ya. Illegal immigrants are working in this country and not paying taxes. They are also being taken advantage of. That's not right for either side. Not to mention the coyotes out there who are making dollars off of desperate people looking for a better life.

We're a country of immigrants. We're not against them, but it has to be done right and legally to best serve everyone.

I'm all for building a fence between the U.S and Mexico. Why? Not because of the immigration issue but because of drug smuggling and homeland security. It is far too easy to get into this country. How long before some terrorist figures this out and manages to hide as a sheep in the herd crossing into the U.S?

I don't have the answers for all the many thousands of illegals who have been here for years. There has to be some compromise that will work. It's not going to set well with everyone, but people really do have to think..okay, it's not perfect, but we can live with that until a better solution comes along.

When people don't pay back into a system that gives you something, something or someone else has to pay for it and while I believe in charity, that's something that goes beyond charity.

911 incident: I don't care how much a 911 operator thinks there may be a prank being played, we MUST ALWAYS treat a call to 911 as if it were real. The life that may be (and was) lost because of this incident was too tragic beyond words. As far as I could tell from the taped conversation, there was no reason for this operator to assume there was a prank going on. She had to know a young child was on the other end and that this was a YOUNG child. We have heard and learned how other young children are listened to by 911 operators and taken seriously. Whether or not this life could have been saved by a 911 call is moot. The point is, someone made a judgement call they had no right to make and a person lost their life and the 911 operator should lose their job because of it. Their job is to get the information, report it and dispatch the necessary personel. There is far too much at risk here for judgement calls of this sort. Better to judge on the side of error than on the side of death.

The Gospel According to Judas: My thoughts on this later.

Sunday, April 09, 2006

It's Sunday, Right?

Oh man, what a weekend with the kids. That little Topper sure does keep me on my toes.... and I vounteered to keep them for Tuesday and Wednesday, not to mention they'll be back on Saturday to color Easter Eggs and on Sunday for the egg hunt (provided the weather is going to be nice) or at least to coleect their goodies. It's one of the few holidays that they simply spend with Mom and Dad.

I love Sundays. It's the one day out of the week that I don't have to hit the floor running. I get up in the morning, fix the coffee pot, drive down to pick up the Sunday paper, come home, pour a cup of coffee and snuggle down to read the paper and wade through the ads. I hate shopping, but I recognize it's a necessary evil. Mr M watches his Nascar race and when that's over, I drag him out to do the shopping. In the case of today, the list is rather long: Rite-Aid for some herbs and veggie plants on sale (on Pookie's list), drop of the dry cleaning (20% off the order), Wal Mart for some items we need and then the grocery store. So, I don't like the whole day, but the mornings are something I look forward to.







Happy Birthday to Sprout! He turned 22 today and I believe him and the friends are going to have a BBQ. They're just not having it here. *grin* I need some peace and quiet and I'm not truly a glutton for punishment, no matter how it looks. We'll be taking him out to dinner next weekend because that's the soonest we can fit it in everyone's schedule. I also belive he and the guys are going to Chico sometime this week to a club where they can stare at half nekkid women.

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I got three parts to Hallows cranked out and up. Now I just have to get another part written for Mending. Oh yes, I found that new part you sneaky person you. I found it on Friday night but couldn't throw another one back out because I was otherwise occupied getting my toenails painted a lovely shape of purple. That's okay, I got something brewing in the gray mattter, I just need some time tonight to crank it out.



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P.O.P (Ponderings Of a Partner)

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Is this truly Stephan? Why would Stephan be consorting with a 'spirit'? Readers know Talis isn't magic or should if they're following Mending. But, she does wear things that are magic such as her sword and armor. Is this what the 'spirit' of the coin picked up on? Hm. She did use crystals to secure the tower room for the swords of the knights... maybe this is what the 'spirit' is referring to... Then again, maybe down through her lineage there is some magic or is it merely the belief in all things natural?

What does Stephan want with a Mage? Why send someone to the Druidic Center in Anglesey? And who in blazes is the son of Cuchulainn? And what the dickens does Stephan want with him?

If this is Stephan, why does he not acknowledge his 'sister'? What has happened to him that he doesn't remember?

Curiousier and curiousier said Alice....

Friday, April 07, 2006

Friday's Maddness

Hey! I got to see sun yesterday, not only did I get to see it, I actually felt it. Hoorah. My joy will be short lived however, there's another storm heading in even as I type. *sigh* Of course the weather man has been spared becoming my next voodoo doll victim by syaing that after this next storm we'll get to dry out. Think he has a hunch about the voodoo doll?

This is grandkids' friday. Pookie starts her spring break next week so I'm probably picking up the kids for two extra days in the middle of the week and there's a storm out there brewing? Let's hope it's blown over by then or I'm getting out the hat pins. The last time I saw Pookie she was writing up this list of things she wants to plant in her garden... Lady Bless! If she got to plant all those, we'd have to have a HUGE garden. I'll have to get her to par it down some. The only thing keeping us from even starting is that the ground is far too wet to work.

Mr M and I went to go see Ice Age II. It was funny. We had a thoroughly good time together. Mr M is still holding up well. Part of my reason for rangling him yesterday is because he has been staying away from factors that set him up for a downfall. I make it a point to tell him how proud of him I am and how much I appreciate his efforts. He seems at a loss what to say back, other than, "Well you know, I just have to step up." I know how much of an effort it is. I know how tired he gets of living with this stuff. I spend many waking hours trying to figure out ways to help. I do think we need to talk more, but finding a good time is the problem. There's so many factors to that. It's just not simply, make the time. Sometimes, I feel like I am walking blindfolded through a field of land mines and any minute I'm going to hear that infamous 'click click'. Don't get me wrong, it's not always like that, but I have to assume so a lot. I have found that even when things at their most even balanced, it's truly not or maybe it is but it's fragile. I knew ten years ago that the older he got, the worse it could become, in fact, my mind kinda already went down that path back then. I just kept waiting for it to emerge. I'm just glad I am young enough to be able to not only cope but bounce back. The bounce sometimes takes a bit longer, but I still can bounce. *grin*

My blood sugar is still a bit elevated, but nothing really bad. It hasn't gone beyond anything for any length of times that would concern the doctor. Some of it is my fault. I was going through my chocolate fixation. It could have been worse, but while my definition of moderation could have been better,I didn't lapse back into old ways and that exercise bike has been getting a work out. I haven't checked my blood pressure recently but I guess I should do so, just to keep tabs on it.

I think I'm finally adjusting to the time change. It's only one hour, but dayam. This time around it's been harder to get back on track. So my sleeping and eating patterns should start t improve.

I did some writing last night and I think I've gotten things caught up for The Hallows, until other people respond. I had to figure out where to leave off so they could have something to work with and then I can take off again. I'm not sure how many parts I completed, but a good guess is about three. Apparently the text didn't transfer over to this computer so I'll have to go resend it after all my mail comes through. I hope to have it up and viewable by tonight and before the kids get here. Mending is still pending. *grin* That last bit was a big push so it's on the burner until the partner catches up. That means I'll have some time to fiddle with some other stuff in the meanwhile.

So, I'm off and running folks and I don't expect to surface until Saturday or Sunday.
Be safe and Be Well.

Thursday, April 06, 2006

Do Shrooms Get Cabin Fever?

I swear, if it wasn't the only big screen tv in the house, didn't cost us a fortune to purchase AND I didn't give a fig for the uproar I would be causing, I would have thrown something substantial through the tv screen this morning at the weather man. We are supposedly not going to see sun until the twentith something. Late yesterday we got teased with some patchy blueness... and here it is a quarter to one in the afternoon and I can actually see that the sky is blue, in places. I may be forced to go out and get those plants in the ground even though it will be digging in MUD. Cheyenne is dying to get outside. Yesterday I went to take the trashcan to the edge of the dirt road and you would have thought I had released her from jail.It was short lived though. So I promised her, the first chance we get, we'll go out there.

Mr M and I are going to go play hookey today. We're going to go to the movies. There's a comedy and a horror flick, his choice because I want to see both. He doesn't know it yet, but I'm rangling that cowboy. Somehow, I don't think he'll put up much of a fuss.

Wednesday, April 05, 2006

LOL

Okay, okay.... My partner has sent me a couple of things to make me realize that my last post isn't all that special. One would figure with mathematics that eventually, numbers are going to find a way to repeat themselves. It also points out to me that one can see pattern in just about any way possible. So, that just tells me that life is full of patterns, what would be interesting is just what kind of patterns emerge.

Okay, so for today, Topper has retake pictures at Head Start (he wasn't there when they were taken the first time) and no bus is running and since this is his first 'school' picture, I have volunteered to take him to school and pick him up later. Then it's off to fetch an item from a Free-Cycle patron for Pookie. I love Free-Cycle. I'm just not fast enough to get a hot tub, but I'll keep looking.

Sun???!! Can it be?? *gasp* Not for long if those weathermen are right. My toes are starting to web together.

Did some graphic design last night, worked on Talis' webpages and developed a killer migraine. I also learned just how fast your blood sugar can drop. Not good. I hope I get the hang of this yet. This time change has messed me up.

So, today, I watch the blood sugar more carefully and find some time to write. I gots people out there waiting for the info they need to continue their stories...

Tuesday, April 04, 2006

Just One Of ThoseThings

GQS always manages to see these patterns in things. I'm not gifted that way. I see some patterns, depending on what they pertain to, but she really sees them. So when this came across my email, I thought I'd pass it along.

On Wednesday of next week, at two minutes and three seconds after 1:00 in the morning, the time and date will be:

01:02:03 04/05/06


That won't ever happen again...ever. You may now return to your (normal?) life

Sunday, April 02, 2006

Sunday Afternoon

Last night's role play was great. I think it was the largest crowd we've had since the turnover. We finally got the mini quest to Avalon done. There's still one small piece to do I believe but that's between LX and Ascellon. I was dog tired when I got off the computer but my mind was rolling with this storyline and I needed some input. So, Troll and I sat down and fleshed out the storyline...be afraid.. be very afraid...muhahaha. No, seriously, I think we came up with a good thing. Time will tell. Right now my agenda today is grocery shopping and getting the next part of The Hallows done, maybe more than one, we'll see. The next couple of parts will entail fleshing out the history of how the Hallows came to be (via the archives in Avalon) and what those objects are and SOMEONE figuring out how they are going to be used. This much I do know... it will entail a four part quest by Camelot before the final confrontation. Troll and I spent a couple of hours hashing over the storyline and I just hope I can remember all of it because I didn't take notes. *grin* Actually, if I forget something I'll just have to pick his brain again. He and I have similar reading interests so I always like to bounce stuff off him when I'm stuck or at a loss about something creative. A lot of times, he bats a zero *lol* but this time I think we've hit on something worthwhile. Since we'll be losing one of our major players for a few weeks, alot of this will have to be stories put on the internet, which is okay. I just need to string it out long enough so that he'll be back in time for the quests. I'm not sure of we'll be able to get one done in before he leaves. My thought is to use the time to flesh the storyline out more, drop in a few things.. once nice is that this is a channel story, so we can put a hold on it, work it a little, whatever it takes until we can work up to the quests. Hmmmm, then again, if I can get a little help from my partner a little later, while our player is gone, we might be able to move some of this along so everyone else doesn't get bored or lose interest. Not sure about that, though. It's a thought. He's got a lot on his plate at the moment...so I might have to forego the pleasure of his company on this one.... Anyway, I guess I should be writing up notes and shopping lists instead of yakking here.

Saturday, April 01, 2006

Saturday's Comments

Yep, it's that time again, we get to lose that hour of sleep just so the day has a bit more more sunlight to it or when you get upin the morning, it's not so dark. However, at the moment, a lot of good that's doing us here on the upper West Coast. We're still knee deep in rain and storms, one goes out, another comes in. So far today *knock wood* I haven't had to worry about a storm and my computer.

Let's see...what to report from The Grove. It's been a busy week, but not a stressful one. He's really been making an effort this week and I appreciate it more than I can say.

Flowers on the south side of the house still haven't been planted, too wet out there. I don't relish playing in the mud. Give me a couple of clear nice days and I'll be out there with Cheyenne. I also need to get the lawn tracker going. That winter grass is going to gobble up my grandbabies if I don't get the chance to get to it soon.

Sprout has been sick this week and that young man has been kissing up to his momma, the brat. I already warned him that if I come down sick, I'm kicking his arse. He always sneaks up behind me, wraps his arms around me so I can't move and plants this big ole wet kiss turn raspberry on my cheek. Yuck, boy slobber. He also enjoys it because he causes me to squirm about because he hasn't shaven in awhile and his pricklies hurt. Of course, when he finally does tunr me loose, he runs like hell because he knows I'm going to either hit him or throw the first thing I can find at him. I love the boy dearly, but I sure do hate it when he's sick. He's so hard to live around. So, after taking care of him all week, he's finally back on his feet, with a small cough, and had to go out today. Cabin fever. He get's it worse than anyone else in the household and gets it first.

I told Daughter I was sorely disappointed in her today. Yesterday she and Pookie were suppose to go to a Mother-Daughter Tea at the school. Daughter apparently was having a bad day according to FB. I told Daughter no matter how she was feeling she should have pulled herself together and gone. Unless she was deathly ill, which she wasn't, she should have gone, not for herself, but for Pookie. Daughter said she told Pookie she'd make it up to her. You can't make these sort of things up to someone. The least Daughter could have done was called me and asked me to go. My tummy wasn't exactly my friend yesterday, but I would have gotten dressed and gone with Pookie. I'm sure Daughter heard the disappointment in my voice because she didn't say much during the conversation. I don't think I've ever said that to her before. I just don't want her to have so many regrets where Pookie is concerned later in life. Sometimes, Daughter lets her disabilities get the better of her and I know she can do better, she just chooses not to try.

As for moi, my blood pressure is stable (which amazes me) and my blood sugar is a bit elevated, not unexpected with all the stress of late. it goes up but it comes back down. Don't aks me how much Tyenol I've consumed over the past few days but it's been *cough* a few. Other than that, this week has been a reprieve. Between work and dribing Mr M around, I've been kept pretty busy, but a good kind of busy.

I didn't take the grandbabies this weekend because, quite frankly, I just wasn't up to it. It pains me to admit it, but I don't have the stamina I use to have. I'll get them next weekend and the week after that is Easter vaction so I get them for a couple days in a row. I'm hoping the weather will clear so we can go out and plant the strawberry plants and a few tomato plants too. Pookie wants her own garden so I'm working on a few things for her to be able to plant, including her own cabbage plant that is currently at home.

I got FK's website updated. I'm owkring on an animation at the moment, trying to figure out how to get the graphic with 2 separate animations goings in it. Each animation has a different speed, so, that's keeping the old brain cell hopping. I'm still working on what exactly to do next with The Hallows, but that perculating right along as well. After tonight's role play, I should have another part or two for Mending. I've also got something brewing for Mending, but that depends on the partner. he gave me the idea, but I have to see which way or if it will fit in...

I've been thankful for having something creative to work on this past week. It's taken me out of my thoughts and given me something else to do and that's been a blessing.

There's short end of my week. I hope you all have a better week than this past one. I hope the weather is warm and sweet.